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Why would a guy flirt with another girl in front of you?
Others flirt relentlessly for hook-ups. Some men flirt because it makes them feel good about themselves when they are otherwise fairly insecure. In other words, he may be trying to get a positive or equal reaction from the other woman to endorse that he is desirable.
Do waiters get hit on a lot?
Waitresses are hit on a lot, and while they’re always friendly about it, they probably will turn you down if they don’t know you well. At the same time, turn the conversation to her. Talking only about yourself might come off as self-absorbed.
Are bartenders supposed to be nice?
Bartenders’ livelihoods depend on being nice to customers (tips!), but to the untrained libido, it can be downright impossible to tell if the flirtation is genuine or a calculated move of professional interest. The lines between “What a nice bartender!”
Are bartenders extroverts or introverts?
“Most bartenders — by their nature, are just extroverts,” Amy said. “I think if I’m flirting with you, you should probably know it. But it doesn’t always seem that easy for guys.
How do you approach a bartender on a slow day?
There’s no one more bored than a bartender on a slow day, so we will definitely give anyone a chance,” Amy said. “Really, just be a nice guy. Be friendly and ask us about ourselves — but again, when we aren’t busy. That’s really the only way you are going to get through, but don’t be annoying. Ever.
Do bartenders ever take home a guy from Hooters?
The lines between “What a nice bartender!” and “Oh my God, this girl wants to bang me,” are often blurred by a pleasant conversation… and a half-dozen pints. But all hope is not lost, friends. As Amy S., a one-time Hooters bartender, said, “To be totally honest, I’ve taken home a guy from every bar I’ve worked at, at least once.”