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Why does my girlfriend bring up her exes?
Maybe she wants to let you know that she’s experienced in love and that you should take the relationship seriously. Maybe she’s insecure, just like I was. And, maybe, like lots of young people, she doesn’t have much going on, so talking about exes is the most interesting conversational approach she can conjure up.
Is discussing past sexual partners normal?
If you trust someone, it’s natural to want to talk about what you’ve learned from past relationships and sexual experiences. That said, numbers really aren’t necessary, and rarely do anything aside from making one person feel bad. But you can’t go back, and his reaction may have provoked an important conversation.
Why is my girlfriend still thinking about her ex?
When your girlfriend is still thinking about her ex, she won’t be open to receiving affection from anyone else. According to Grant Brenner, a psychiatrist and co-author of Relationship Sanity: Creating and Maintaining Healthy Relationships, she can even feel like being close to you, emotionally and physically, is akin to cheating on her ex.
Is Your Girlfriend obsessed with her ex-boyfriend?
But if your girlfriend is constantly talking about her ex, she might as well want to talk with him, instead of you. If something reminds her of him, it’s one thing. If every single thing is somehow one ticket to the past, you have trouble. An obsession is never healthy and is unhealthy for you as well as it is compromising your relationship.
What does it mean when your girlfriend compares you to your ex?
But yet, if your girlfriend compares you to her ex for the silliest reasons, or when you’re late or forget to do something, it only means she’s mentally evaluating who’s the better boyfriend. But seriously, if she has no thoughts of ever dumping you and getting back with her ex, why the comparisons in the first place, right?!
Should I let my girlfriend talk to her ex?
Most of the time, there is nothing good about your girlfriend talking to her ex. What you need to do is step back for a minute and think about how much you really feel for her. Understand that if she is still feeling for her ex, you will never have all of her, as much as that hurts. You need to take action and take care of you.