What to do when you have an argument with your boyfriend?
Talking it over
- Choose an appropriate time to talk.
- Try to start the discussion amicably.
- Use ‘I’ statements, not ‘you’ statements.
- Try to see things from your partner’s perspective.
- And remember: you may not just be arguing the surface problem.
- Keep tabs on physical feelings.
- Be prepared to compromise.
Does your partner always think you’re wrong?
However, if your partner actually does always think you’re wrong (as in, they always blame you/never give in in an argument), you may be dealing with a narcissist, which makes it the situation more difficult. You also need to consider whether you are in a toxic relationship, where the best option is likely to be leaving the relationship. Part 1
What to say when your partner is blaming you for everything?
From there, you could say, “I’m glad to hear you say that. Here’s what I think a good solution would be:” Listen to how your partner responds. If your partner cannot reciprocate the “I” statement or if they start blaming you again, it might be a sign that they are not willing to work it out.
What to do when you are not happy around your boyfriend?
Trust your instincts and don’t overanalyze your emotions. If you are not happy around him a majority of the time, pay attention to these feelings. This is especially true if you are in a situation (e.g., party, favorite restaurant, etc.) that is supposed to be enjoyable.
Is it time to give up on the idea he is perfect?
It may be time to give up on to the romantic idea that he is perfect for you. Over the past decade, dating apps have fundamentally changed the mental calculus we use to forage for romantic partners. We can swipe left and right through a mass of faces in no time at all, making quick decisions to ditch potential partners and secure better ones.