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What questions should I ask myself about my classmates?
Question if you would spend time with these kids outside of school. If you don’t have much in common with these classmates, there may not be much of a need to even be friends in class. If your classmates seem like they would be the type of friends you want, ask yourself whether you need to make more of an effort to make friends.
How to break the Silence of not speaking up in class?
Breaking the silence of not speaking up in class does not need to start out in a huge way. You can start out by just making an effort to make small contributions to the bigger conversation. Or, you may show interest by just laughing at the right time during an animated story being told by a classmate.
How do you know if a classmate is not bullying you?
The intimidation factor isn’t present. Beyond the power issue there also needs to be a valid intent to harm, so if this is a classmate who just plays jokes on you but doesn’t seem to want to harm you that isn’t bullying. A classmate pulling one practical joke also lacks the repeated pattern of bullying as well. Talk to someone you trust. [8]
Why do I have a problem with one class but not others?
If you are having a problem with one of your classes but not others, it means that some people are able to value your presence and treat your politely. Focus on the classes you have friends in and know you are liked.
Is it bad if I don’t like all my classmates?
I did not like all of my classmates (for various reasons) at any given time, from primary school to the university. You don’t have to like everyone, you’re not going to like everyone and everyone won’t like you especially if you’re not a conformist. That’s life. And it’s not a terrible thing.
Is it normal to hate everyone in your class?
Hating a specific individual isn’t unusual, hating all your classmates is a problem you alone have. You don’t have to love everyone….but hating everyone is not a normal behavior. How old are you?
What should I do if my father refuses to meet me?
Recognize that your father might not want to meet you, at least right away. Before you initiate contact, think about what it will be like if he refuses contact. Make a plan to reach out to specific people, such as supportive friends or a social worker, if this happens.