What does accepting the love we think we deserve mean?
The thing we have to remember, is we accept the love we think we deserve. This means if we don’t value ourselves, we’re likely to end up with someone who doesn’t really value us either. Compromising on the level of love we want or not even being fully aware that it’s possible to have more.
Who says we accept the love we think we deserve?
This quote is spoken by Bill to Charlie in The Perks of Being a Wallflower, written by Stephen Chbosky (1999). The main character in this book (and noted wallflower), Charlie, asks his favorite English teacher one question.
How much you are loved meaning?
“You are loved” implies that there’s some unknown or assumed “other” that is doing the loving. It more precisely translates to “I’m *sure* someone/thing loves you, and that this person/thing exists someplace.” And so by saying “you are loved,” you are passing the buck, you are saying nothing.
How do we accept love?
The choice to receive love can be actualized through:
- Receiving love without obligation.
- Knowing one’s value.
- Expressing one’s need for help, love, or encouragement.
- Accepting compliments.
- Accepting help from others.
- Actively listening to others as they communicate.
What does it mean to accept love?
Accepting love is understanding that the other sees the good in you. It’s about making an allowance for the fact that there must be something in you that’s good and worth loving — and that’s damn hard to do. We have a much tougher time accepting the good in us than seeing the good in other people.
What does “we accept the love we think we deserve” mean?
He is someone who only wants to be in a relationship when it is convenient for him. In order to change this, young women need to realize that we deserve more. The quote, “we accept the love we think we deserve”, is a quote that can influence our entire outlook on a relationship.
What does Charlie mean by we accept the love we think we deserve?
When Charlie tells Sam “we accept the love we think we deserve” in response to her question of “why [she and everyone she loves] pick people who treat [them] like [they’re] nothing?” we have come to terms with this truth that Mr. Anderson imparted on us earlier and are now beginning to understand it.
Why do we accept the love of others?
We accept the love that we think (subconsciously) we deserve. Most of the time when we feel bad about ourselves, have low self confidence and don’t know our worth we end up with people who treat us like shit. and we Accept that type of “love” because thats the love we give ourselves. but thats just my perceptive.
What does “deserving” mean to you?
“Deserving” is about something that we earn, that we work hard for. This is why many people won’t let someone love them because they think they haven’t done anything to deserve this. But the truth is that you always have the power to accept or refuse something that is offered to you, no matter if you deserve it.