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Is settling in a relationship a bad thing?
If you’re hanging around waiting to find the love of your life, don’t. Seriously. The notion of “settling” gets such a bad rap and the idea that it can lead to a happy, loving, fulfilling and stable relationship is not very popular. To most people, settling sounds un-romantic.
Why is settling not good?
When we settle, we don’t stop looking for the things we still want and need. Even though you might be in a committed relationship, the unhappiness will bubble to the surface and your eye will start to wander when you do find yourself in the vicinity of someone who has the qualities you need.
Do people settle when they marry?
A study by Siemens Festival Nights concluded that 73\% of married people SETTLED. They did NOT marry their “true love”. They settled for ‘good enough’ or made the safe choice.
What does it mean to settle for less in a relationship?
Rather, settling means that you’re accepting less than you deserve or what you don’t want overall. If you love your partner and love being with them but wish they worked as an engineer instead of a sales assistant, that’s not settling.
Does settling in a relationship lead to happiness?
Some people who end up settling in a relationship believe that what they’re doing will lead to happiness because they will eventually come to love their partner like a soulmate.
Why don’t relationships work out after settling?
So one of the biggest reasons why settling doesn’t work out is because if you’re settling with someone you don’t love, you’re missing out all the good parts of being in a relationship that is based on true love.
Do you love your partner if you settle for something?
Generally, most people who settle don’t love their partners in the same way that others do. They might love them as a friend, or love the way they parent the kids or love certain other qualities they have, but they don’t feel that passionate love that fires them up.
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