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Is my therapist supposed to ask questions?
As a client, you are allowed to ask your therapist just about anything. And, it is possible that the therapist will not or cannot answer the question for a variety of reasons. Some counselors believe strongly in being a “blank screen” or “mirror” in therapy.
What should not be done in counseling?
In summary, when dealing with couples, counselors should avoid making the following mistakes:
- Showing bias or favoritism.
- Failing to collect enough information about both people to avoid making assumptions.
- Failing to establish ground rules at the beginning.
- Failing to identify the actual client.
Do therapists make assumptions?
The client is only giving the therapist his perceptions about life events, circumstances, even the definition of his own identity. If the therapist is not careful she might begin to make assumptions regarding the reason for the client’s current problems.
What is the first question to ask in therapy?
The very first question in therapy is usually about the presenting problem or the chief complaint for which the client comes to therapy, often followed by an exploration of the client’s past experience with therapy, if any, and his or her expectations of future outcomes of therapy.
What should the first therapy session look like?
Ideally, the first therapy session should be a form of positive inception so the practitioner can set the stage for future interactions. Carl Rogers (1961) used to say that the therapist must create an environment where everyone can be themselves. Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers.
Why should therapists avoid these common counseling pitfalls?
By avoiding these common counseling pitfalls, therapists will be in a better position to empower, guide, and support their clients toward greater emotional fulfillment and wellbeing. Before you read on, we thought you might like to download our three Positive Psychology Exercises for free.
Why do therapists sometimes miss the extent of the client’s suffering?
Of course, therapists sometimes miss the extent of the client’s suffering because of a misleading self-report or presentation. We must assess the client’s level of depression and safety frequently and carefully. This is our ultimate responsibility as licensed mental health professionals. For more of my work, please visit my website.