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“Your partner may react negatively to your sexual fantasy and that is completely alright. You have to accept their opinions as well. But, if they like it, then you are in for a treat. Just keep in mind that you shouldn’t feel bad about your partner’s reaction.
How do I tell my husband about my fantasy?
How do I tell my partner about my sexual fantasies?
- TEST THE WATERS. Let’s face it, revealing your fantasies to another person makes you vulnerable, which can feel scary.
- FOCUS ON THEMES, NOT DETAILS. Casual sex.
- TALK ABOUT CORE EROTIC FEELINGS.
- DON’T YUCK THEIR YUM.
- GET CONSENT.
- KNOW IT’S OKAY TO BE ‘VANILLA’
How do you ask your partner if they have a fantasy?
Ultimately you may find out that your fantasy is one your partner has as well, in which case, jackpot. It can also be a great time to ask if there is a fantasy they’d like to share with you. Being vulnerable might encourage your partner to do the same. Be prepared for a positive or negative reaction, or maybe even a mix of both.
How do you convince your partner to act on your fantasies?
Obviously if you decide to enact any of your fantasies together, you and your partner will need to have additional conversations about how to go about that in a way you’re both into. Explain that there’s no pressure to act on your fantasy ASAP (or ever).
What is the most common fantasy of a married woman?
One of the most common fantasy of a married woman is actually committing infidelity. Guys, don’t be surprised, we all know you’re also fantasizing about actually doing it. There’s this dark arousing feeling of having sex with another guy other than your partner.
Is it weird to have fantasies about your partner?
Remember that you’re not weird for having fantasies. Fantasies aren’t inherently gross or creepy. They’re a natural part of being a sexual person. “The brain…is the most erogenous zone in the body,” Kimberly Atwood, licensed professional counselor and certified sex therapist, tells SELF.