How do you not care when people judge you?
Here are 15 sure-fire ways to eliminate the worry and free yourself to be yourself.
- Focus on what matters.
- Keep perspective.
- You know best.
- Mind your own business.
- Desensitize your triggers.
- Stop overthinking.
- Seek constructive feedback.
- Don’t try to please everyone.
Is it OK to judge your friends?
First, stating the obvious — judging your friends, which you seem to realize you’re doing, is not okay. You don’t have the moral high ground to decide whether your friend’s decision was right or wrong. And even if it was wrong in your books, they need not feel the same way, and that’s okay.
What should you do when others judge you?
Here are ten things to do even if others judge you for it: Take care of yourself. – Your relationship with yourself is the closest and most important relationship you will ever have. If you don’t take good care of yourself, then you can’t take good care of others either; which is why taking care of yourself is the best selfish thing you can do.
How do you deal with a friend who is judging you?
Come from the truth. The illusion is separation, judgment, criticism, disconnection. The truth is oneness, love and connection. The safe route is to shrug it off, blame it on the other person as “her problem,” judge her for judging you … all to make yourself feel bigger since you felt shut down.
What can we learn from judging others?
But what we can learn is that our judgments mostly have to do with us, not the people we judge, and the same is true when others judge us. In most cases, we judge others in order to feel better about ourselves, because we are lacking self-acceptance and self-love.
What are the things people will automatically judge you on?
7 Things People Will Automatically Judge You On. 1 1. Your clothes. Without a doubt, this automatically gets you judged. Dress too nice, you’ll be judged as a rich snob, dress too poor you’ll be judged 2 2. Your voice. 3 3. The way you spend your money. 4 4. The way you stand. 5 5. What you do for a living.