How do you deal with not being able to help people?
Here are a few things to consider when working with your loved one who doesn’t want help:
- Listen and validate. If your relationship is iffy, it doesn’t hurt to just listen.
- Ask questions.
- Resist the urge to fix or give advice.
- Explore options together.
- Take care of yourself and find your own support.
How do you feel when you help anyone who is in need?
10 benefits of helping others
- Helping others feels good.
- It creates a sense of belonging.
- It gives you a sense of purpose.
- Giving helps keep things in perspective.
- It’s contagious.
- Helping others can help you live longer.
- It will give you a sense of renewal.
- You’ll boost your self-esteem.
What does it feel like to help others?
Gratitude that one has the means to help others often enters into the acts of kindness towards others. I always feel appreciative of what I have or enjoy. If I am helping a colleague, I appreciated those that helped me be the teacher I am so I can help others. I feel compassion when I help others.
How do you deal with people who won’t help you?
Just accept them for who they are, flaws and all, then decide for yourself if it is worth it to you. If it is, patience is a virtue. If not, then keep a hand out but watch out for yourself as well. No need for two people who won’t help themselves.
What happens when someone listens to you well?
When someone listens to you well, it makes you feel accepted, understood, important, valued and validated. It gives you a voice to help you find yourself again.
How can you help someone who is not willing to learn?
People have to come to where they need to be to get their lessons. You can’t help someone who is not willing. But you can love them through it. Send light and love and hold them in your heart space. I had to hit my own bottom and dead end to turn around and climb back up…when I was ready and willing. ~Karen Blake
How do you help someone who is struggling with their life?
If we want to help, we can do some positive things like: Give some encouragement or discuss the situation with them and let their own intuition discover the best way to help themselves. ~Santosh Nag. 4. Examine your attachment to their choices. Their challenges and choices are their life lessons, not yours.