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How do you deal with a parent that resents you?
Here are some thoughts to help the healing begin:
- Resolve resentment. Nursing resentments toward a parent does more than keep that parent in the doghouse.
- Develop realistic expectations.
- Hold on to the good.
- Foster true separation.
- Let your parents back into your heart.
- Commit to the journey.
Why do I feel like my mother resents me?
Another reason you may feel like your mom hates you is that she says or does things that are negative or critical toward you. It’s possible that her behavior is unacceptable, but it’s also possible that she’s trying to help you learn to be your best. As mentioned above, she may be a tough love type of person.
How do you deal with an adult child who resents you?
Your adult child resents the way you parented them. Here’s how to handle it. This 8-step process will help you get through the conversation and build a better relationship with your grown children. Fight the desire to explain why you may have done something, and instead focus on validating your child’s feelings.
Why does my mom ignore me when I tell her good news?
Jealousy can be a pretty painful emotion, so your mom may try to tamp hers down by feigning disinterest or boredom whenever you share good news, as a way to protect herself. She might cut a phone call short or change the subject, leaving you wonder why she doesn’t seem to care.
Why does my mom criticize me all the time?
Constant criticism, or bullying, may be your mom’s way of letting out her own insecurity. For example, “if your mom criticizes the choices you make, such as your partner, or career, or says nasty things about you in front of family or friends, this may be a sign she is jealous,” Kimberly Hershenson, a NYC-based therapist, tells Bustle.
Why does my mom change her look so much?
If your mom begins changing her look in the makeup and fashion department, it may be a sign of her insecurity.