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How do you deal with a friend who told a secret?
Meet with the friend who told your secret. Tell her that you know what she did, and go over the list you have created, so you can fully express how her actions damaged you and your friendship. If you wish to pursue reconciliation, let your friend know she needs to rebuild trust, which will take a long time.
Your burden has been halved. Your friend offers level-headed and well-reasoned advice, and you are pleased you entrusted him or her with your secret. You feel this way until you see your friend again a week later. This person admits he or she told his or her significant other your secret. Your friend gives you some advice from the SO.
Can’t Keep your friends’ secrets?
This rule is about ethically-inspired relationship agreements. If you can’t keep your friends’ secrets, the number of trusting friends you have may quickly diminish. When we enter into relationships, we have to realize that no matter how close we might be to another person, we cannot control anyone’s behavior but our own.
Do you regret ever trusting your friend to keep a secret?
You can’t help but imagine your friend and his or her SO sitting in bed one night, talking about your personal failures, insecurities and fears. Plain and simple, you feel ashamed. This feeling permeates your entire body down to your bones, and you start to regret ever trusting your friend to keep your secret.
Should we trust our friends with their secrets?
If we can’t trust a friend to maintain our confidences, then we need to refrain from communicating confidential information or personal secrets. This rule is about ethically-inspired relationship agreements. If you can’t keep your friends’ secrets, the number of trusting friends you have may quickly diminish.
What happens when you leave a friend feeling bad about yourself?
You feel bad about yourself when you’ve spent time with them Sometimes it’s difficult to analyse behaviour, but your emotions never lie. Friends should make you feel good, empowered and uplifted. If you leave them feeling like crap then you should probably re-evaluate the benefit you’re getting from the friendship.
How do you know if someone isn’t your friend for right reasons?
We’ve pooled together our own experiences and come up with 15 of the most common signs that somebody isn’t your friend for the right reasons. If any of these apply to your friendships, we would encourage you to think twice about them and try to determine whether they are really a friend… 1. They only call when they want something