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How do you ask out an INFJ?
In short, asking out an Advocate is not a good time to pretend. Don’t worry about acting cool, don’t dress in a style that doesn’t feel natural to you, don’t play games, and for the love of all that is good in this world, don’t stretch the truth about your interests or hobbies in an effort to establish common ground.
What an INFJ needs to hear?
They want to hear the secret thoughts you’re afraid to utter. How you’re really feeling, even though you said you’re “doing fine.” INFJs love discussing personal, big-idea topics. They especially love helping other people understand their complicated, messy emotions and grow.
How Do You Talk to an INFJ?
If you’re trying to converse with an INFJ you don’t know well, I’d suggest asking for relationship (platonic, romantic, etc.) advice, asking about the INFJ’s interests (and commenting as they speak about them), or discussing body language intuition. As an INFJ, it takes me a while to feel comfortable with people.
Do INFJ’s question everything?
As a young INFJ, one of the 16 Myers-Briggs personality types, I questioned everything. Of course, it irritated the hell out of my parents and teachers, but it was just the way I did things. I refused to do something unless I knew the reason for doing it, and not only that, I had to agree that the reason made sense.
How do INFJs feel about small talks?
We know that small talks are absolutely necessary especially when we met someone new. Just that to an INFJ, these small talks are so boring and superficial that they feel draining. When my students asked me questions such as What is your fave color?, Fave movie?, Fave food?, or Fave singer?, I literally froze.
Why is the INFJ personality type so complicated?
The INFJ personality type is a paradox. It can be hard for other people to understand. When I studied literature in secondary school, I love oxymoron — “sweet sorrow”, “beautiful tyrant”, “loving hate” and etc. Perhaps because I am one. Our complexity is due to our contradictory INFJ traits.
What does it mean when an INFJ says “Never Mind”?
If an INFJ says something “isn’t important” or throws out a “never mind,” take care! This can mean one of three things: They’re testing you and want you to address an uncomfortable subject, as if they’re saying, “I’m not sure how you’re going to react to this subject, so I’m testing the waters.”