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How do I get rid of my clingy ex boyfriend?
Here are some tips you can use to deal with a clingy ex-boyfriend who refuses to move on.
- Talk to him and be firm.
- Don’t respond to his every call and message.
- Distance yourself from your ex.
- Let him know if you are seeing someone.
- Unfriend on social media.
What causes obsession with an ex?
You may be having these feelings due to something else, such as nostalgia. You may love the person you used to be, or love them for who they were. Other times, you have a personality that makes you obsessed. If you do want your ex back, and the feeling is mutual, then perhaps it’s time to get back together.
What to do when your ex is obsessed with you?
If you reciprocate the contact, even to say “leave me alone,” the ex may interpret it as a sign that you are still interested. The best technique for dealing with an obsessive ex is to avoid all contact. It is best to leave calls, texts, emails, etc. unanswered. Just ignore or delete them.
When to take a break in a relationship with an obsessive?
[Read: How to take a break in a relationship] When your partner becomes obsessive to the point of hysteria and harassment, you have no other choice but to call in the cavalry. Dealing with an obsessive person can be emotionally taxing, and a person can only take so much before they start realizing that they need help.
What happens when you end a relationship with an obsession?
When the object of the obsession tires of all the attention, pressure, and neediness and — inevitably — tries to pull back, the perpetrator’s worst fears are confirmed, setting up a vicious cycle in which each side escalates in response to the other. At the extreme, the end of the relationship can lead to the end of a life.
The best thing you can do is remove your ex from your social media contact lists: you don’t want him/her to be in touch with you, and you won’t want to see your ex’s social media content. Stay away from your ex. Avoiding physical contact can be an effective way of dealing with an obsessive ex.