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Does your mother treat you differently from your siblings?
Many adults feel their mother treats them differently from their siblings. In a study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family, researchers found that only 13.8\% of adult respondents felt their mothers were equally close to all of the children in the family.
How can I get my parents to treat me more fairly?
You can’t change other people. You can only control your own behavior. Sometimes people are willing to change their behavior. If your parent starts treating you more fairly, accept that this is a genuine choice and be willing to start forgiving. Face and work through your distressing feelings.
How do I deal with a mother who asks for too much?
If you feel your mother depends on you more than your siblings, set boundaries for how much you can do. When your mom asks for too much, kindly let her know you won’t be able to help this time, and she should go to one of your brothers or sisters. Some mothers have one child who they believe can do no wrong, causing jealousy among siblings.
How do parents treat the youngest child in a relationship?
Parents and older siblings usually treat the youngest child as the baby. While moms expect older children to handle household chores, the youngest usually has less responsibility. Some moms are also more reluctant to encourage the youngest to be independent because they enjoy being a caretaker.
How do you feel when your parents don’t treat you fairly?
You may feel sad, ashamed, or angry if one or both of your parents aren’t treating you fairly. These feelings are normal, but that doesn’t make them permanent, and they don’t have to define your life. “Scapegoating” is when people act like something is your fault even though it isn’t.
How to deal with preferential treatment from your parents?
In cases of clear and obvious preferential treatment, try to show your parents their behavior and share how it makes you feel. Heal yourself of the emotional scars you might have after being treated badly by your parents, and seek counselling if necessary. Method 1 Talking to Your Parents