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Why we are mean to those we love?
When we hurt someone for no reason, it’s because we fear rejection or disconnection from that person. We hope that, by lashing out, they’ll show us more love, attention or understanding. As a result, we’ll feel ‘safer’ in the relationship. So, we behave badly because we want to feel ‘safe’.
Why am I being so mean to everyone?
Some common anger triggers include: personal problems, such as missing a promotion at work or relationship difficulties. a problem caused by another person such as cancelling plans. an event like bad traffic or getting in a car accident.
Why are we hardest on the ones we love?
You may hurt the one you love the most simply because they are the ones that are mostly around. Our emotions, thoughts and behaviours are in constant interplay. If we have a negative mood, we are therefore more likely to act in ways that match our emotional state or get triggered by innocuous and harmless stimuli.
Why am I so mean all the time?
If you ask yourself why you are so mean, maybe it’s because that information you should have kept in your head came rambling out of your mouth. Most people have a filter between what they think and what they say. Some individuals think having no filter is a good thing – it makes them feel more ‘ real ’.
Why do people hurt the one they love?
Unrequited love is painful, and this pain can drive you to hurt the one you love. Some people hurt the one they love unintentionally, while others do so intentionally. The first behavior pattern is easier to explain. There are many cases in which lovers are likely to hurt their beloved without intending to do so.
What happens when you love someone and they don’t love you?
A lack of reciprocity—that is, the knowledge that the one you love does not love you—is painful and humiliating, because it is a profound blow to your self-esteem. Unrequited love is painful, and this pain can drive you to hurt the one you love.
Why are some people not nice to others?
These people have little interest in appearing nice to others and probably have little regard for treating others well. They are probably little interested in having friends or being socially accepted and liked, and therefore they have less motivation to be nice and respectful to people. 10. They Have Poor Self-Awareness and Poor Social Awareness