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Why do people lose interest when you show interest?
The truth of the matter is that deep down, a part of us all feels unworthy of love. A part of us is insecure about our value. So when someone comes at us showing interest, we assume they have a lesser value. It’s such a common occurrence that one partner loses interest the second the other partner shows equal interest.
Is showing too much interest a bad thing?
When someone shows a lot of interest, it signals that the relationship has the ability to progress. The more a relationship progresses, the more intimate things become. Johnson also points to the fact that we place high value on those with lives outside of the relationship.
How to hold a woman’s interest when she loses interest?
If a women is left wondering how you feel about her as a result of your absence, she will lose interest fast. To hold her interest, the rules of courtship apply: flowers just because, opening of doors, arriving on time, all manner of gentlemanly behavior, and most importantly, regular contact.
What happens when a man is not interested in what pleases her?
If a man’s not trying to find out what pleases her (I use ‘trying’ loosely because for a fascinated man, it’s a delight and not work), women lose interest. He desires her. He tells her he wants her. He never stops telling her. He gets specific about how he desires her.
When do women lose interest in a guy?
This is often where women lose interest, particularly in the early stages of dating. Men: woo her. Never stop wooing her. This means picking up the phone and calling instead of endless texting. This means reaching out regularly.
What are the two things that keep women interested?
The two things that keep women interested. Women stay interested when their partner is fascinated and fascinating. Have one without the other (or neither) and a woman will lose interest. Let’s unpack this. He is fascinated. When a woman feels she is the object of her partner’s fascination, she will stay interested. What does this look like?