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Why do expectations hurt so much?
But when he fails into one or two of these roles, we get disappointed. Again, EXPECTATIONS HURT! Expectations urge you to be a better person; it constantly keeps a person motivated to achieve his/her goals. No expectation means no purpose, no motivation and no hopes.
How do you not have unrealistic expectations?
How to Relinquish Unrealistic Expectations
- Catch your unrealistic expectations with curiosity and humor.
- Use the double-standard technique.
- Reflect on the effects of your expectations.
- Practice compassion.
- Allow for flexibility.
Is it bad to lower your expectations?
Lowering your expectations can help you reframe how you view your relationships with others. You can gain perspective and learn more about yourself as you think more about the other person’s point of view.
Is there anything wrong with fulfilling an expectation?
There is nothing wrong with this in and of itself, as long as we have good reasons to believe that fulfilling an expectation will make us happy, and we take the necessary steps toward fulfilling those expectations. “Good reasons” might include us knowing from past experience that certain things make us happy.
Are your expectations running your life?
Every time, you think someone should do something or something should happen, that is an expectation. The word “should” brings forth expectations. Start noticing how you use the word “should” for all the small, little things in life. Don’t let these expectations run your daily life.
Why can’t my expectations make me happy?
Expectations cannot make you happy because you are not enjoying what is. You are striving for something that hasn’t come true yet. Even when you have met your expectations, two things are likely to happen: You have more expectations for the future, so you never really take the time to celebrate and enjoy the moment, or
What do you say when you expect nothing?
When you expect nothing you shield yourself from the disappointment, so whatever you do get or achieve is an unexpected reward. May these quotes inspire you to expect nothing and appreciate everything that comes into your life. 1. “If you expect nothing from somebody you are never disappointed.”. Sylvia Plath. 2.