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What to say when you dont have anything to say?
Here is a list of things you might talk about when there is nothing to talk about:
- Talk about this itself.
- Talk about things you wish were happening.
- Have a conversation with someone who is having a wildly different experience than you.
- Have conversations with people who might be really struggling.
What to say when you want to talk to someone but dont know what to say?
Here are my tricks for how to know what to say, even when you don’t know what to say.
- Memorize some universal questions.
- Switch between sharing and asking questions.
- Focus all your attention on the conversation.
- Keep the conversation centered on the other person.
- Jump back to a previous topic.
Do you talk too much in a conversation?
Every conversation, to be rewarding and enriching, must be bidirectional. But it is essential to differentiate people who talk too much because of a mental or neurological disorder, from those who monopolize the speech for an excess of ego. People who suffer from Logorrhoea cannot hold their speech, no matter how hard they try.
Is it easier to talk about nothing or something interesting?
Because of this, you don’t need to have something particularly interesting to say. You just need to say something. People don’t remember what you said, but they do remember that you had something to say. In the end, you can talk about interesting stuff, or “nothing.” Nothing is much easier.
Why do people talk too much about themselves?
People who talk too much about themselves feel good when they receive attention and others listen to them, because they interpret it as a sign of their value. The topics of conversation preferred by these people are usually their successes and life stories, all which can make them look beautiful at the eyes of the others.
Why don’t people ever stop thinking about one little conversation?
Because they had plenty of other conversations that pushed it out of their mind. Maybe they had new problems to solve or events to go to. In the end, one little conversation means nothing to the average person in the grand scheme of things. At least it shouldn’t.