What to do when someone is confused about their feelings for you?
What to do when a guy is confused about his feelings?
- Openly talk to him. It’s a good idea to let the guy know about your feelings.
- Give him time and space. Try not to make him feel like he has to decide right away.
- Reassure him. Let him know that you understand that he isn’t ready yet.
What is confusion emotion?
Confusion. An emotion associated with conflicting and contrary information, such as when people appraise an event as unfamiliar and as hard to understand. Confusion motivates people to work through the perplexing information and thus fosters deeper learning.
Why are some emotions confused?
Another reason that feelings can be confusing is that different types of emotions can sometimes feel similar. For example, both anger and fear can make you shaky and make your heart beat faster. So when you notice you are having an emotional reaction, you still have to figure out which emotion it is [3].
How do I get over confusion?
Here is what you can do to overcome your confusion and find the joy:
- Accept where you are. Accept the fog, accept the confusion and accept the feelings of “stuckness.” Sometimes you get stuck because you are meant to be stuck.
- Take a deep breath.
- Focus on what you know.
- Be patient.
What should you do when you’re confused about something?
If you’re the one experiencing signs of confusion, it might be a good idea to call a friend or loved one for help. If you’re confused, you might need help with things that you could do on your own before.
What does it mean when a guy is confused about you?
You probably didn’t do anything wrong. This inconsistent behavior is a sign that this guy is confused about his feelings. He might even be in denial about his feelings . He’s trying to process his emotions but he can’t be rational when you’re around.
Why don’t we let out our feelings for others?
If we’re codependent (i.e., feeling more responsible for the feelings of others than for our own), we may also fear that freely expressing our emotions could launch some kind of emotional contagion. Afraid that openly letting out our hurt might somehow be infectious, we may hold it in, unwilling to take the chance of making anyone else upset.
Why do we hide our emotional pain from others?
Having explored many of the reasons why we hide our emotional pain from others, in closing I’d like to suggest the primary reason not to. In brief, if we don’t let others know that what they’ve said or done has hurt us, they’re likely to continue doing exactly what they have been.