What should I do if my ex-spouse is toxic?
The more toxic an ex-spouse is, the more problems there will be moving forward, especially if there are minor children. The poorer the communication there is, the more important it is to spell out every aspect of parenting time/visitation with the children. In some cases, pick-ups and drop-offs should be specified to the minute.
How do you know if your ex still cares about you?
Jealousy is one of the simplest ways to determine if your ex still cares about you. If your ex gets to know you were out on a date or they have a suspicion about it, they will probably try to pry some information from you. They might ask you what you were up to last night or who you were hanging out with.
What to do if your ex is a stalking victim?
And remember that the best help you can give your ex is a one-time, clear “it’s over,” followed by absolute silence. Anything else gives him a chance to hear what he wants to rather than deal with the truth. 3. Believing that being a stalking victim says something bad about you.
What to do if your ex is trying to get you back?
Giving in to these threats only puts you in danger. A former lover knows every button to push to get you back in his life; know what those buttons are yourself so you can protect yourself. And remember that the best help you can give your ex is a one-time, clear “it’s over,” followed by absolute silence.
How do I deal with an ex who won’t answer calls?
Make rules for when you will answer calls to the child. Be reasonable and be tactful, but do not share these rules with your ex. This is you creating boundaries for you – not creating more ways for him/her to permeate your psyche. Example: Let’s say you decide (and tell your ex) that any calls after 8:00 p.m. will not be answered.
Is parallel parenting right for Your Ex?
Unfortunately, that’s not always an option. And in the vast majority of cases, kids are better off having a relationship with both biological parents. So when your ex happens to be toxic or narcissistic, parallel parenting is your only choice.
Where to pick up and drop off children from toxic ex-spouse?
In others, there will be pick-ups and drop-offs in a public place such as a library or restaurant. In extreme cases, pick-ups and drop-offs will be at police stations. This is clearly not good for the children. Dealing with extracurricular activities and school events can be tricky with a toxic ex-spouse.