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What emotion is typically underneath lying and deception?
Once involved, the emotions must be concealed if the lie is not to be betrayed. Any emotion may be the culprit, but three emotions are most often intertwined with deceit: fear of being caught, guilt about lying, and delight in having duped someone.
What is the root cause of deception?
Why People Engage in Deception. According to one expert, lies are like wishes—often, what is said are things people wish were true. A large body of research identifies three major reasons why people lie: to get something they want, so-called instrumental reasons; to protect or promote themselves; and to harm others.
What happens if you don’t have trust in your relationship?
If you don’t have trust in your relationship, there will never be an actual relationship – only the idea of one. Without trust… passion, meaning, intimacy, and connection cannot exist. No matter what you do or how enthusiastically you search for it with no pants on.
What do you do when Trust is broken in a relationship?
As far as what to do when trust is broken in a relationship, remember this: It’s SUPPOSED TO be heartbreaking. Deception hurts, and when you’re in the process of connecting the dots, it’s about as painful and unnatural as having to perform open-heart surgery on yourself. You obsess over every word and playback every scenario.
What is trusttrust and why does it matter?
Trust is the definition of optimal relational health. If you don’t have it, nothing else matters. It doesn’t matter how amazing all of the surrounding factors are, how mind-blowing the sex is or how enticing the potential.
Are some people better at detecting deception than others?
They know that some people are better at lying than others; their visual and verbal cues are in sync with what they are saying. But studies consistently show that most people are terrible at detecting deception, performing no better than chance.
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