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What does the narcissist want from you?
Your narcissist wants you to feel small, unlovable, powerless, and without value. This is how he controls you. He absolutely doesn’t want you to live in the truth that you are lovable and have the power to make your own choices because then he loses control over you.
Why does the narcissist keep seeking contact with the ex?
The narcissists keep seeking contact with the ex because they are afraid of losing control. And they know exactly who is weak and who can serve them as a playing surface. The toxic ex-partner cannot bear it when the partner wants to start a new life, so he makes it difficult for her. Even if you can hardly believe it: such people actually exist.
Why do narcissists blame their partners for everything?
The separation is the best reason for narcissistic people to blame their partner for everything. He enjoys blaming others for blaming you for everything that wasn’t good. People of weak character believe that too; they believe that their narcissistic partner is right. You start to feel shit about it.
Do female narcissists act like the perfect partner?
The female narcissists I have dealt with personally and professionally were covert and loved to act like the perfect partner and parent. They go to extreme lengths outside the family home to project this image of perfection. Obviously within the relationship things are very different.
Can a narcissist love you if they are shallow?
Their relationships are usually very shallow no matter how much they profess to love you. Many narcissistic individuals are quite capable of assuring you that you are the love of their life one day, and then suddenly leave you for someone else because they got angry or bored.
Ironically, the three things a narcissist wants all start with an S. I thought it would be interesting to go over the three S’s the narcissist wants from you and create a video diving much deeper into these three S’s. 1. Supply – This is the way the narcissist protects their false sense of self.
What are some examples of narcissism in the workplace?
A narcissist might suck up to the boss at work to become “friends” with them. Then act like they’re higher in status because of their association. In this example a narcissist might boss people around, even though it’s not their place to do so. Most narcissists hate doing things on their own.
How do narcissists define supply and service?
1. Supply – This is the way the narcissist protects their false sense of self. They do this at the expense of others, typically empaths, people like you and I. 2. Service – This is how you take care of them, and how they take care of them.
Why do narcissists Hate Being Alone for long?
Most narcissists hate being on their own for long. And although they might not admit it, they need people more than most do. Narcissist don’t like being vulnerable. So they don’t want you to know how much they need you. Otherwise you might realise you have more power than them.