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What are toxic INFJs like?
Unhealthy INFJs are chronic people-pleasers who never want to disappoint. 7. They become so involved with other people’s problems that they can’t focus on their own. Likewise, they become so bogged down with other people’s emotions that their day is often ruined because someone else is having a bad day.
Do INFJ attract toxic people?
INFJs seek the “ultimate relationship.” They only want what they know deep down they deserve — a person who respects and honors them as they are. Like any other personality type, they can be susceptible to the toxic person’s “false mask” of seeming vulnerability and innocent admiration.
Why do narcissists like INFJs?
INFJs are notorious for their warmth and love for helping others, even to the point of trying to “fix” them. They are highly visible in their generosity and concern for others. As a result, they are a bright light that often attracts the darkness of the narcissist.
Why do narcissists like Infj?
Why are narcissists so attracted to INFJs? – Quora. Empathy. Because every INFJ has very high levels of empathy, underdeveloped INFJs often don’t know yet how to control this empathy and tend to want to fix others in order to make others pain go away. This is what draws narcissists to them.
Are INFJ’s more likely to stay in toxic relationships?
Staying in a toxic relationship is much harder for INFJs because we don’t want to hurt anyone. For example, I never had the loving support I needed during my childhood and adolescent years. I was on my own and left to handle my fears as best I could.
What does it feel like to be in a toxic relationship?
If you’re an INFJ like me, you know how it feels to be overwhelmed in a toxic relationship. All our senses are messed up and we start feeling guilty and unworthy. The INFJ personality is like a magnet for relationships that utterly drain us, but we tend to stay in them nonetheless. Allow me to explain why.
Are INFJs self-sabotaging relationships?
When INFJs are in a relationship that proves to be overwhelming, this is when problems begin. We would rather suffer and swallow the pain than hurt that person by breaking up. There’s a feeling that’s worth mentioning: self-sabotage. This is a term well known for the INFJ personality.