Is revenge cheating okay?
But in most cases, retaliatory infidelity is no laughing matter. And relationship experts agree that revenge cheating usually does much more harm to a relationship than good.
What to do with people who cheated you?
How to cope with being cheated on
- Remember: you are not to blame.
- Accept that things are going to suck for a while.
- Put yourself first.
- Try to keep your cool.
- Don’t make decisions out of fear.
- Surround yourself with your squad.
- Take a mini-break from socials.
- Ask for (professional) help if you need it.
What is the best revenge for cheating in a relationship?
Take the high road and focus on your major strength- yourself. Making yourself stronger, happier, and more confident is probably the best revenge you could ever have. Believe me when I say that I was very tempted to take revenge on the woman my husband cheated with. In the end, I decided this would probably just lead to more hurt and drama.
Does revenge really help?
So, it’s very natural to want revenge and many people suspect that it might just make them feel better about their situation and about themselves. But it’s my experience that actually, despite how good you think this might feel, it truly doesn’t help as much as you had hoped.
Is your affair making cheating appear more acceptable?
Your affair can easily make cheating seem more acceptable in their minds (after all, you both did it). 1. It will distract you from dealing with the real issues in the relationship that led to the affair in the first place. 2.
Why haven’t I cheated before?
There’s a reason you haven’t cheated before. If your loyalty, ethics, or morals have kept you from doing so, compromising them can cause later feelings of shame and regret that are damaging to your self-image and emotional well-being. Check out the free app Dr. Heartbreak here. Click here to join my mailing list and follow me on Twitter @GuyWinch.