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Is it possible to be over 30 and never have a relationship?
It’s time to shatter the misconception that if you’re over 30 and have never been in a serious relationship, you’re somehow defective and must be really lonely. That couldn’t be further from the truth—I’m in that exact position and I couldn’t be happier.
Can you love without being attached to someone long-term?
Just because I have not been attached to someone long-term doesn’t mean I haven’t had any meaningful relationships, been in love, or experienced tenderness, care, or compassion. Love comes in a variety of forms and I’m totally fulfilled with what I’ve experienced of it thus far. I’ve had wonderful love from friends, family, and lovers.
What do you love most about not being in a relationship?
If there’s one thing I’ve learned about myself in my 30 years, it’s that I am very independent, and one of the things I love about not being in a relationship is that it has allowed me to continue having complete and total freedom. I get bored fairly easily and tend to start feeling claustrophobic when I’m not able to spend time alone.
What do men who have never had a girlfriend at 30 think?
Most men who have never had girlfriend at 30 think that there must be something wrong with them. They are constantly wondering what they could be doing wrong. They follow advice after advice but they just can’t score a great woman.
Why are some people single for years at a time?
Some people are single for years because of unwanted outsiders always melding and pro-shaping their life with out that single person even knowing. Than after years of “no-where” relationships and one night stands and or medical problems, single, is really all their is.
Is it bad that I haven’t been in a serious relationship?
It’s really not a big deal. Never be embarrassed that you haven’t been in a serious relationship. Embrace it! People get uncomfortable about the fact that you’ve been single so long because they don’t know how THEY would handle it and they’re projecting that all onto you.