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How do you accept not being the best?
Here are four steps that will help you accept that brutal fact—before you get your tail stepped on by some clumsy-footed person behind you.
- Recognize That Things Are Always Changing. The world—and even your career—are constantly evolving and changing.
- Identify Your Personal Best.
- Think About Outcomes.
- Accept “Good Enough”
How do you accept things you don’t want to accept?
How to Accept Things As They Are
- Notice when you are trying to change or deny things that can’t be changed.
- Remind yourself that “it is what it is” and there is nothing you can do to change it right now.
- Allow yourself to feel sad and disappointed; these feelings are healthy!
- Seek out social support.
What happens when you try to do everything at once?
“If you are trying to do everything all at the same time, all you’re doing really is setting yourself up for a burnout. And if you reach that point, you risk giving it all up for good, because you turn something that you loved into something that you now loathe.”
How can I Stop Feeling like I am less than the best?
Embrace the discomfort and insecurity that you’ll experience being less than the best, and have fun with it! 2. Ask more questions. When you ask questions, you display vulnerability; you’re acknowledging that there is something that you don’t know that others do.
How can I stop comparing myself to everyone around me?
Simply stop obsessing over how successful or accomplished everyone around you is, and focus instead on being the best you can be. Let me tell you, once you’re competing with yourself —and not every single other person around you—life gets a whole lot easier.
How do you deal with a difficult team?
Talking things through and being in constant communication about what needs to be done and asking people what they need to get their job done is a way that I’ve previously handled stressful situations in a leadership role, keeping the whole team more calm.”
How do I stop being scared to try new things?
1. Try something new that interests you but doesn’t come naturally to you. I think most people have at least one activity that they might like to try but don’t out of fear of being bad at it. Maybe it’s singing, maybe it’s drawing, maybe it’s public speaking. Pick an activity that you’re not good at and try it out for a while.