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How do Narcissists pretend?
Narcissists convince themselves, often unconsciously, that they are actually better than their target, despite constantly feeling inferior. They often express it externally: by demeaning, slandering, ridiculing, shaming, and otherwise attacking their target. Or, by showing off and lying about their own achievements.
Why do narcs act like you don’t exist?
Narcissists have an impaired or undeveloped self. They think and function differently from other people. They behave as they do because of the way their brain is wired, whether due to nature or nurture. Remember that the severity of narcissism varies.
Can postpone & pretend help you recover from a narcissist?
The key is to NOT allow it and a recovery game I created called Postpone & Pretend is one surefire tool for doing this…for helping us get past the initial shock of the narcissist’s Discard …for helping us to recover in a faster, more proficient way than we ever imagined possible.
What to do after a narcissist leaves you?
Having said all that, the key to a speedy and meaningful recovery is to get back up and going as swiftly as possible after the narcissist leaves us and this is where the game of Postpone & Pretend comes in.
How long does it take to get over a narcissist?
Getting over a relationship with a narcissist is never easy and the pain can linger with us for many weeks, months, and even years after if we allow it.
What happens when a narcissist pulls a disappearing act?
When they have pulled every trick in the book and they still can’t control you, expect your narcissistic partner to pull a disappearing act on you. They might disappear in hopes of getting your attention so you beg them to come back; or, they will disappear for real in search of new supply. In this case, you will probably never see them again.
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