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How do I stop battling?
How to Stop Fighting and Feel Close Again
- Don’t fester.
- Take the time to calm down.
- Be attuned to yourself.
- Change from a defensive to a receptive state.
- Reject the filter of your critical inner voice.
- Drop your half of the dynamic.
- Feel the feeling, but do the right thing.
- Be vulnerable and express what you want.
How can I win a battle?
Avoid your opponent’s first attack.
- You must remain calm and move quickly to get out of the way.
- When you push your opponent, try to thrust away from the ground with your legs and follow through with your arms to deliver the most force possible.
Does he want to win or lose?
He does not want to win; he needs to win. Winning, by whatever means, evokes in young children a feeling of pride; losing evokes a feeling of failure and shame. It would be difficult to overestimate the importance of these emotions in the lives of our children, especially young boys.
How can I win the battles of life?
If you want to win the battles of life, you must cling to what you know is true, and the one and only thing you can always be sure is true is what God says. Beware! The truth won’t always look true, won’t always feel true, won’t always seem true, but the truth will always be true.
What is the importance of winning and losing to young children?
Winning, by whatever means, evokes in young children a feeling of pride; losing evokes a feeling of failure and shame. It would be difficult to overestimate the importance of these emotions in the lives of our children, especially young boys. When playing games, many young children take great pleasure in their victory – and in our defeat.
Why do children enjoy winning and boasting?
Winning and boasting offer them temporary relief from feelings of failure and envy. Some younger children have not yet emerged from the age of illusion, the age when children are not yet expected to fully understand the idea of rules. But, to be fair, we all get caught up in the game.