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How do I deal with fighting with my brother?
Express your emotions and feelings in healthy ways.
- Try venting to a friend or to your parent about what is on your mind. This will get rid of your feelings so you don’t carry them with you next time you talk to your brother.
- If you’re really angry with your brother, rather than yelling at him, try writing a letter.
How do you get your brother to stop attacking you?
Ask your brother why he is bothering you, but don’t make it sound like you are attacking him. Say, “Why are you (saying, doing) that?” If he continues to bother you, tell him, “I feel (sad, hurt) when you (say those things, do those things) to me.” Make this about your feelings and not about his actions.
How can I stop fighting with my brother or sister?
Show your brother or sister you love them then after you talk about what is upsetting you, come up with a plan so that you can reduce the number of fights you have. Brainstorm a few healthy solutions, and decide upon a few options with your sibling. Maybe your system is taking turns choosing the TV show.
Is it normal for siblings to fight a lot?
Fights between siblings are inevitable, even if they can be frustrating. If you and your sibling want to stop fighting, there are a few strategies you can try before, during, and after a fight. You may be family, but with a little effort, you can get along like friends!
How do you punish your kids when they won’t stop fighting?
I used to have my kids sit in the floor nose to nose when they wouldn’t stop fighting. It usually lasted about 20 seconds and then they’d be laughing so hard, they’d forget that they were even fighting. Some call it the punishment shirt, while other families call it the I Love You Shirt.
What should I do when my brother or sister is frustrated?
Put yourself in your brother or sister’s shoes if they are frustrating you. Before you fight, think about why your sister may be in a bad mood. Ask yourself what you may have done to upset your brother.