Can you fall outta love with someone you truly loved?
It is possible to stop loving someone. The love, as you feel it now, will change. Different people serve different purposes in your life. You can be grateful for the time you shared with this person and deeply care about them, then also move on romantically and stop loving them in the way you once did.
Why do people fall out of love so easily?
You might think it’s because they realize they’re not right for each other or because they argue too much or aren’t having enough sex or have feelings for someone else. These can be challenging issues in a relationship, but none is the main reason people fall out of love. The No. 1 reason people fall out of love is because they’re human. Yes.
Can You Fall Out of Love and then fall back in love?
Yes. We are designed to fall out of love. And then, if the relationship is healthy and both people understand what real love is about, we fall back in love, deeper than before. And then we fall out of love and back in love. You get the picture. Falling in and out love is as cyclical as the tides of the ocean.
Is love something that only happens to you?
We carry a strong cultural misconception that love is something that happens to you. In other words, it’s your partner’s job to “make” you feel alive, loved, and happy. While we do need a loving partner in order to share love, you and only you are responsible for your feelings of aliveness and joy.
Is it possible to no longer feel attracted to your partner?
But no longer feeling attracted to a partner is the crux of most people’s complaints: “She (or he) is a nice person but…” I was struck by this quote from Dr. Anna Stubblefield: “If somebody has an interesting, engaging mind and a good heart and a beautiful soul, that is transformative. It shows through and you love the person.