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How do I get my older sister to stop being annoying?
Explain your feelings.
- Stay calm as you’re discussing your feelings. Your sister is unlikely to listen to you if you start yelling and shouting.
- To keep her from feeling defensive, use “I” statements.
- If your sister raises her voice or speaks to you harshly, politely ask her to stop.
How do you calm down with an annoying sister?
Offer a distraction, in case she wants one. Sometimes, people feel better if they have a chance to focus on something else. Try inviting her to play a game, take a walk, go outside, dance to music, or do something else with you that she enjoys. Having some fun may help your sister feel a little better.
Why does my older sister always take care of Me?
Your older sister felt like she had to take care of you. When you were little, your parents probably had her babysit when they wanted to go out. You may have hated how she tried to be like your second mother, bossing you around at times, but you know in your heart she did it because she cares so much about you.
How do you know you’ll always respect your big sister?
You know you’ll always respect what your big sister has to say. Your older sister felt like she had to take care of you. When you were little, your parents probably had her babysit when they wanted to go out.
Why do I say “same” when I see other sisters interact?
The way you and your sister interact is unique to your family, but you can still get that feeling that makes you say “same” when you see other sisters interact. Whenever I see things that older sisters do, I’m immediately reminded of my own sister. There are some things about having an older sister that every little sis can totally relate to.
Is it better to stop speaking to your siblings?
It’s a bummer when I hear about siblings who have nothing in common, but totally understand that it’s much better to stop speaking to a sibling than to let a toxic relationship fester for years. Not all sisters get along, whether it is based on personality differences, or possibly due to household issues from the past.