Table of Contents
- 1 What is the feeling of being responsible?
- 2 Are you responsible for your own feelings?
- 3 Are we responsible for others happiness?
- 4 How do you let others feel your feelings into consideration?
- 5 How do you feel responsible for your actions?
- 6 Should we take responsibility for how others feel deeply fear?
What is the feeling of being responsible?
Being a responsible person is usually a good thing—it means you’re committed, dependable, accountable, and care about others. It’s the opposite of shirking responsibility by pointing fingers or making excuses.
Are you responsible for your own feelings?
In other words, our beliefs and expectations about a person or event or situation directly influence and, many would argue, cause our feelings. They are not the result of or inherent in of the situation itself. Others do not cause our feelings — we cause them ourselves.
Are you responsible for others feelings?
We are not responsible for the feelings of others (although we are responsible to them), and we cannot, nor do we, cause those feelings to emerge. Unless we do something intentionally hurtful to another person, the feelings that they experience are those that they have created for themselves.
Are we responsible for others happiness?
We believe the responsibility for others’ happiness rests on our shoulders. We do everything we can think of to make sure others are happy. Others aren’t always happy because that’s just the way life is. We feel a sense of guilt when others aren’t fully happy as if we have failed them.
How do you let others feel your feelings into consideration?
Good manners also include careful listening and sensitivity to someone else’s feelings. For example, refraining from interrupting another person while he’s talking, or nodding to show agreement and understanding are ways that polite behavior can show respect for another person.
What happens when you take responsibility for everyone and everything?
When you take responsibility for everyone and everything, wittingly or unwittingly, you throw yourself into a cycle of anxiety, stress, and sometimes depression as well. You feel it’s your fault when other people feel bad.
How do you feel responsible for your actions?
When you realize that your choices (whether actions or lack there of) always have an effect, that is responsibility. I feel responsible when I see my kids doing something that might hurt them badly. I feel responsible when they’re making trouble. And I feel responsible when they’re having difficulty and need guidance. What does it feel like?
Should we take responsibility for how others feel deeply fear?
The people who adhere to the philosophy that they are not responsible for how anyone else feels deeply fear (because of their childhood experience) that if they take responsibility, they will lose themself. They will not exist. They will lose their feelings, thoughts, needs and desires.
Should responsibility be based on feelings or reality?
The inevitable variability of feelings would thrash their future back and forth as my mood changes. That’s just not sustainable. Responsibility can’t be based on feelings, they’re too reactive and unpredictable.