Is it normal to not want to live with your in-laws?
It’s totally natural and normal for your in-laws to do things differently than what you’re used to, but it doesn’t mean they’re wrong. And it also doesn’t mean you’re wrong. It just means you’re different.
How do you stay separate from inlaws?
Separating from In-laws? 10 Tips for You
- While the blame may lie with either side, it is wise to remember that no one is perfect, says relationship and well being coach Pooja Khera.
- Consider the consequences of your choice.
- Clearly identify the reason(s) behind this decision.
- Make sure you have support from your spouse.
Should I Stay with my in-laws?
Staying with your in-laws can be very difficult you could either bring all of you close together or it could drive you all a part you need to set ground rules with your life partner and understand that you each come first and that you are no longer children.
How to deal with in-laws who don’t like you?
Find something that nourishes you and connects you to you. Consider staying at a hotel or Airbnb instead of staying with your in-laws if possible in the future. Another tactic is simply to avoid hard topics. Steer the conversation away from contentious topics like politics, religion or child-rearing.
How do you deal with in-laws who live close by?
With in-laws who live close by, the trick is to avoid an ugly confrontation but still get what you need. If you don’t want your in-laws tagging along on every special outing, just keep mum about the immediate-family-only ones.
What to do when your in-laws stay with your child?
If your in-laws are nice kind people and enjoy having their child and his partner stay with them, then it’s best to accept graciously and when you are there, do your best to help out (cooking meals, keeping the house clean etc). The visit will pass quickly enough and you’ll be back in your own home before you know it.